Sunday, September 25, 2016

Friends & Projects

I know I just finally posted that last post, but there is still so much to catch up on!  I want to tell you all about 2 specific things.  The hungry patients at the hospital and the disabled children going to America!

Let me begin with the patients.  Dr. Ronald is a Rwandan surgeon who has recently graduated residency from a PAACS residency in Ethiopia.  (PAACS = Pan Africa Academy of Christian Surgeons)
He is committing to a minimum of 5 years serving as a general surgeon at Kibogora Hospital.  His wife Cissy has a masters degree in business.  We met Ronald way back in 2009 on our first trip here.  He was a medical student - a good one with great potential!  Joel liked him right away.  We re-met Ronald and Cissy last year when they did a visiting surgical rotation here during the time Joel was working in Kibogora.  They are good people.  The best.  They are trustworthy, humble, so kind, generous and exactly lovely.  On Ronald's time off, he goes to the surgical ward to talk with the patients about Jesus.  Last week, 2 patients gave their lives to the Lord.  Cissy is choosing to volunteer here at Kibogora in the local university and remain by Ronald's side instead of moving to Kigali to find a good paying job - this also goes against a cultural norm, and much pressure from their families.  They are a gift to the hospital and to the community.... and definitely to us.

When I visited Cissy during the first week after their arrival, she asked me about the patients at the hospital and how they eat.  I didn't have much information to give her, but I did know that there is a nutrition service that is responsible to work closely with social services to make sure the poorest patients get food.  I also knew that the patients are responsible for their own food.  The hospital does not provide a food service.  She was saddened by this, but had many questions.   Maybe we could survey the patients and see what the reality is for them.  Possibly food is not a problem.  And equally possible we might find that the patients have difficulty getting food.  So, you know... like all smart folks do, we asked Joel :)

Joel suggested that we write up a survey with the questions we wanted to ask the patients and present it to the director (the interim director.... but that's a story for another day).  So we got to work.   Our questions included "Do you have a caretaker?.... How far away do you live?..... Do you eat meals at the hospital?.... Do you ever miss meals?.... Why is that?..... What food do you eat?....Would you be interested in a food service?.... How much per meal would you be able to pay?...... "  and several others.

We made an appointment and visited the director to present our survey.  His response was calm, calculated and confident.  He told us that he knew the answers already.  There are patients who do not eat.  There will be 80% of patients who will not be able to pay for a food service.  The government will not help us because they require every hospital to provide food for patients and they see Kibogora as fulfilling that requirement due to our nutrition service for the poorest patients.  I asked him if he felt the survey was a bad idea.  He said,
"No.  Since the question has been raised, let's do the survey."
That same day, we met with the social service workers as well as the nutritionist.  All involved had the same bleak outlook.  This is a hopeless project.  Everyone knows the patients are hungry.  Everyone is too poor to pay for food.  But do the survey anyway.

Over the next week, Cissy and I spent hours of our afternoons in the wards.  We interviewed 100 patients in surgery, pediatrics and internal medicine.  Cissy asked the questions and translated the answers for me into English and I recorded them on the iPad.  She later told me that as soon as the patients saw me, they shared the sad details of their stories with her and begged her to ask me to pay for their medical bills.  (We are commonly seen here as holding the answers to all the financial problems.... it is maybe the single most difficult part Joel & I struggle with while here.... the tension  that we live with being wealthy Americans and knowing that to hand out money is not the best way for the community to thrive... and yet Jesus even said to give to those who ask and to give up everything for Him.... )

We then analyzed our data.  The results were as expected.  The most enlightening to me is that we found 51% of patients/caretakers eat less than a meal a day.  Most of them share food with other patients and wait for a family member or neighbor to bring them something to eat - and most of them live hours and hours of walking distance away.  In many cases, a husband will walk 6 hours to bring a meal to his wife in the hospital .... once every few days.  Because so many stories are similar, the food that is "shared" is very minimal.  For those patients who receive nutrition services, we found that they, too, were suffering.  They had eaten only porridge once in the past two days, or maybe one egg when the surgeon had put orders in for them to have protein daily to help heal their wounds.

We created tables and excel spreadsheets and were excited to run to the hospital director with our results.... but Joel, wise once again, reminded us that a problem is just another frustration, unless there is a solution.  He suggested we research more and try to develop a solution.

We emailed other hospitals in country who do feed patients.  We met with a local woman, Thamar, who is a retired hospital chaplain (another woman who might, in reality, be an angel).  She is a successful shop owner.  Thamar gave much needed direction, such as:  how many people one kilogram of porridge would feed... how much sugar we would need for that porridge... how many people could be fed with 1 kilogram of rice, beans, potatoes, etc....
We interviewed an important person at the local high school - a boarding school that feeds 734 people three meals a day.  We saw their kitchen and the special, giant pots that cook rice, beans, potatoes and water for drinking over fire.  We asked him our same questions:  how many people can one kilogram of rice feed?...  How many people for one kilo of porridge .... and we compared them to our other info.  How much do they pay their kitchen staff?  How many staff are required?  How do they find enough food locally to provide that many meals?  So many questions.... and so many answers!  He encouraged us that this can actually be done.  But it will cost money.

After all of our research, two ideas stand out above all others.  1.  We cannot begin this project if it is doomed to fail.  It would be better not to begin.  So go slowly and make a careful long-term plan.  And 2.  We cannot expect the patients to pay for the food, or plan on this service being self-sustaining.  It will fail.

We have also learned that just as the poverty and needs are never-ending in this Kibogora community, so are the grace, compassion, surprises and unlimited loving kindness of our God.  So we wait with our results.  Cissy and I pray together.  We pray with Ronald and Joel.  Our mission community prays for this project together at our weekly meetings.  We don't know what we wait for.... but we wait expectantly.    

To give an idea to you of what we're looking at..... Our initial results have yielded the following:
To feed 300 patients a healthy porridge for breakfast will cost $44.
To feed them a meal of rice, veggies and beans will cost about $105.
To feed them potatoes, veggies & beans will cost about $70.
In total, somewhere in the ballpark of $50,000 per year

We may be able lower costs by purchasing wholesale foods.
We have learned that there are several gardens on hospital grounds....  might be a possibility for growing some of our patient food?

Please pray and hope with us!
YOU ARE WELCOME! 
.... and they say we had an earthquake right here this week.... 2 actually.  But we didn't feel anything!






Tuesday, September 20, 2016

Saturday, September 17, 2016

Hi You Guys!
Wow!  So much to catch up on.  Our house internet has been down this week,  so I had to make time to trek up the hill, hide from the kids and remember the internet password for another house :)
Time is flying.  We have been here almost 2 months and it feels like 2 days.  Our family is doing well.  We have completed 4 weeks of school and I'm so happy that Michigan school started up again so I have some resources from our awesome teachers!  
We have brief moments of feeling homesick waves, but they pass.  As long as no one mentions pumpkin spice, apple orchards, hayrides, warm cider and donuts...... ok, now I'm sad :(

The days are busy here.  Joel is doing a lot of surgery and has really enjoyed working with the GR resident who is out here for the month.  Brittany is the first of three 3rd year surgical residents who will be spending a month with us this year.  She was delighted to find a real bed, running water that is hot and even a microwave in her apartment here!  We are living the posh life :)  I'll let Joel fill in the details that take place in the surgical ward and operating rooms.  But the kids have introduced her to exploring the landscapes around here - all those hills!  We have taken some walks to Tyazo (the little "town" down the road) together and even given her bananas cooked in tomato sauce for dinner once :)  

Here are the kids hard at school work... our typical week day includes breakfast & chores until 9.
School from 9-1pm, lunch and play the rest of the day!  It is dark by 6:30pm and we often have visitors in the evenings until dinner and beyond.
Bedtime is welcome relief!

Some fun poetry & artwork by the kids :)






Two of Levi's favorite hobbies.  Chess.
And photo-editing.

Oh, and also cutting anything up ...
with a machete, of course!


Those super fun chores..... that mean mom makes them do!

This was a really fun day.  And gross.... disturbing... humbling... enlightening... weird.... very cultural.....
It all began with this nice little goat that the kids played with....

Levi learning from Cissy how to prepare a "kitchen" with wooden charcoal 

Meet Ferdinand (husband to Constance & Dad to Ian & baby Jesse).  When he told us that he knew how to cook brochettes, we took him up on his offer to have a party and a real Rwandan experience.  In his regular life, Ferdinand is a driver for the hospital and we have been friends since 2009.


I know.  Don't look!

This is Cissy's cousin from Kigali, Hadija.
She is preparing to cook the rice. 
Here is Constance with baby Jesse who has finally fallen asleep.  Constance is a nurse supervisor in pediatrics.

Sugarcane is a great snack while you wait for the goat to be ready!

Annette (Cissy's sister), Paula, Cissy

Levi, Ian, Lauren, Anna

Ferdinand teaching Levi how to skewer up the brochettes.

mmmmmmm.... if you don't think about it too hard.

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My sweet, sweet friend, Cissy!  Dr. Ronald's wife.

Preparing the table for our delicious buffet!
(Cissy, Lauren, Anna, Ali)

We ate goat, rice, fried potatoes, banana bread, rice salad made like pasta, peanuts, bananas, cinnamon rolls.  And is the custom of all Rwandan gatherings, Fanta!

A sneaky visitor smelling our picnic!

Constance & Paula & sleeping baby Jesse
(Andrea is in the back - a volunteer from Canada
who visited for 2 weeks)


That day was so much fun!  The kids and I went down to Kumbya with Constance, Ferdinand and their kids as well as Cissy and her sister & cousin.  When Ferdinand killed the goat, I couldn't watch.  But afterwards, the kids were fascinated and couldn't stop watching.  We peeled potatoes with dull knives, salted them and dropped them in hot oil over charcoal.  We cooked rice over the fire and cooked a tomato sauce to put on the meat.  It was a lot of work, and it wasn't until about 2 hours into the day that I realized I was the only adult "umuzungu"  (white person).  That was a fun realization for me - to suddenly be aware that I was with some real friends and nobody else was from America.  I praise God for answering my many prayers for friends here.  Later that afternoon, the rest of the gang from the mission showed up.  They brought the rest of the feast.  Super great day!





Thursday, August 25, 2016

Daily Happenings

Dr. Joel & Dr. Ronald hard at work in the OR
(Operating Room)
It's hot & sticky, no windows, no air conditioning, scrubs covered by a gown with tight gloves, a hat & face mask.  Joel can almost wring out his t-shirt at the end of a case.
I would totally pass out!



Joel with 2 visiting surgeons from Germany.
Gunther & Philip are giving their time here for 2 weeks.  Great guys!


This is our main entrance.  There is a newly painted sign indicating that we are now a guesthouse as well as a mission.  The guesthouse helps to pay the bills when there aren't enough missionaries to fill the houses.
Honeymoon anyone???

Here is our school/toy room - though we have our lessons outside on the picnic table.  I brought a couple desks down from the schoolhouse to put in our front room.  It works out nicely.  Almost one week of school under our belt!  Kids are doing great!  I think I kind of like teaching....



Thank you Heather for the super fun wipe off strips for sight words!!!!

Math is better outside!

Learning cursive is better when Chess is close by!

Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Snapshots of life here...

Hi Friends!!!!  Here's another little glimpse into our life at Kibogora!  




Levi & Anna have started their own little business!  They are getting to be quite the cooks around here!




And then there was the day they moved the piano....... It took 6 men.  We served them Kool-Aid and cookies afterwards!



We attended our first Rwandan wedding!
It was about 6 hours long.... sitting.  What a day!

Meet Rachel... you might remember her from last year!  She lived with us 3 months last year & visited for a couple weeks this year.  We all cried when she left :(  She's amazing!!!!

A fun crowd who enjoyed watching us take some pictures after the wedding ceremony while we all waited together for the reception to begin.


Some lovely toilet paper wedding decorations.

Even a live band!!!

We gasped several times watching this cake balance it's way through the 5 hour reception.


And here is a pic of the wedding food!  It's really good.  Even Anna gobbles this food up!!!  Traditional Rwandan food.  Three different ways of cooking bananas, a few kinds of potatoes, some rice & veggies, and some mystery meat... This was fried fish.

Here's Levi going through the dinner line and our friend Julianne.  Isn't she so pretty?!

Rachel showing off her piano talent on the piano that has newly been brought down the hill to our house.  And Meet Emmanual, our friend who is about to become a nurse.

Of course "home" wouldn't be complete without Levi playing with fire at least once a day!